From medicinal marijuana to mindful masturbation and harm reduction to hog tied; it’s no holds barred out there today, and there is more all the time.
How does this apply to that? What was that anyway? What makes the most sense?
If, as is believed, the masculine heart desires freedom. To create a safe space in which to be free. Meanwhile, the feminine heart is all about love, wanting love, more love, I am never loved enough, all that, and looking for a safe place to love freely.
The two come together to form a solid connection when the energy is right, clear of emotional baggage and beliefs, and life gets very easy.
So easy, in fact, that you don’t dare leave it, but that is only if you have been there in the first place.
What if you have not?
You have never had that level of bliss—a solid, or even better, sacred connection.
If you have not had that bliss, and even if you do or are close, it is what you are wanting. Deep down, below that part of you that is saying “no it isn’t” right now. Easy, freedom and love.
But that is where your own internal masculine and feminine come in. Getting a little higher here in the level of consciousness, but with that knowledge it is evident that that internal balance needs to be met for bliss in the first place.
When someone gets to this point, where they can balance that by creating a safe space internally in which they can then enjoy the fuck out of life, they have arrived.
That is what we want. The space to be who we are freely.
That is the point when the person says “I am not going to drink again,” or “that was the last time I will do that” in one form or another.
But this time it is different. They have suddenly contained that urge to just love freely without their own self-control. It has been their choice all along and they now realize that release of a problematic behavior.
They choose to change and change.
Getting and maintaining that balance. The first part is easier than the second part, but both are well worth the emotional investment.
Finding out what you want, what you love, who you are and not who you are supposed to be. That is the ticket to ride, and you choose the destination.